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Anna is sitting in a New York caf, sipping an English Breakfast tea. Dressed in patterned tights and a black sweaterdress, the 20something Smith College grad has auburn curls and big brown eyes. Pretty? Yes. Sexy? Sure. Sex addict? No way. But she's currently being treated for sex addiction, seeing a therapist once a week and attending daily support groups,[url=http://www.fcgeo.ca]ugg australia for sale[/url], after an affair last year almost ruined her marriage and landed her in sex rehab. "I always knew I focused too much on. "However, how loudly you scream or how frequently you fight does not predict the outcome of your marriage."
What qualifies as fighting fair in marriage essentially comes down to how each partner feels when they leave the ring. If both are hearty "boxers" who love a few rounds in the ring and then are ready for some makeup sex, the marriage is probably fine.
But if people leave the ring angry, bitter, and resentful, perhaps it's time to reevaluate, either together or with the help of a therapist or psychologist.
How to Keep the PeaceExperts on wedded bliss some with the pedigree of education and others with the scars of experience have recommended the following strategies for smoothing things over:
Go to bed angry. Several therapists and couples say forget that adage about always resolving anger before turning in and let someone sleep on the couch. "It allows partners to clear their thoughts, get some sleep, and make a date to resume the fight (which might seem less important in the light of day)."Take a break. Even a 30second break can help a couple push the reset button on a fight, licensed clinical counselor Timothy Warneka says. "Stop, step out of the room, and reconnect when everyone's a little calmer."Own up to your part of the fight. Melody Brooke, a licensed marriage and family therapist, says two things derail intense fights: admitting what you did to get your partner ticked off and expressing empathy toward your partner. "Letting down our defenses in the heat of battle seems counterintuitive, but it is actually very effective with couples."Find the humor. Pamela Bodley and her husband have been married 23 years, "and Lord knows it [wasn't] easy in the early years," she says. "But it's much, much better now. We have a great sense of humor." Her husband Paul has kept the mood light by always saying he knows women keep skillets in their purse. So when he does something wrong, Bodley says, "I just pretend to hit him over the head with a skillet and say, 'TING!'"Shut up and touch. Brooke says there's a point where discussing the matter doesn't help. So couples need to just hold each other when nothing else seems to be working. An example: "I can understand why you didn't pick up the dishes in the family room, but why do you think I'm the maid?"Remember what's important. "We soon realized that we don't have two beings in a marriage," Jacqueline Freeman says. "We actually have three: me, my husband, and the marriage. And we have to take good care of all three. So if we've been arguing about whose fault it is that the house is so messy, I might defend myself saying I was busy working on a project that will bring in more income, and he might say he was busy fixing something on the house that was broken. We used to be able to carry on a conversation like this for quite some time. But over the years, we seem to have developed a 15minute timer for arguing. [Then] one of us will suddenly remember the key question: What's best for the marriage?"
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